Mother & Family Support
- Doula Service -
Welcome Beautiful,
I cannot wait to meet you all; you&bump, baby, daddy, big sister/brother ...
We do not just support mothers and families. We EMPOWER.
And we welcome the little new magical creatures in this world in this way they feel safe, trusted and empowered.
I truly believe in our nature, our own instinct. We should follow this and not allow the fears or judgments to overtake our pregnancy, birth, motherhood, family … and our life.
These words show what it means for true empowerment. It is one of my Ars Poetica :
“Mental Health of infant leads to
Child’s mental health.
Mental Health of child leads to
Adult’s mental health.
Mental Health of adults leads to
Parent’s mental health.
Mental Health of Parent leads to
Mental Health of infant.and …”
What shall I say about myself...?
I’m mother of two – Emily and David (I’m enjoying the teenage years now)- and work as holistic counsellor - CFMW, creating awareness with articles, posts, support individuals, families.
My focus always was around children-mother, women's life and family. I have a point of view that if we "break" the "insanity" around the pregnancy, women, birth, that will to create great change in personal life, family life, communities and all over the world.
"I will not rescue you,
For you are not powerless.
I will not fix you,
For you are not broken.
I will not heal you,
For I see you, in your wholeness.
I will walk with you through the darkness,
As you remember your light."
(Source: Ancient Essence Wisdom for 21st Century fb)
I learned at my astrology course that the beginning impacts the whole, that's why you can use the astroscop to know people's pathway in their life. You can use this for everything; your morning has impact on your day, ...and the birth is that point where you arrive on the Earth and this is a beginning too.
As doula I have chance to support and empower mothers and even their family. I show as much beauty as I'm allowed for the new creature and create a warm welcome here.
Doulas are there for mothers and babies to hold the space, to support connection as a bridge between the unseen worlds which opens up during the birth. We are there for the mother for empowering her to know what she already knows and welcome the new embodied being on the planet Earth.
We do this without expectations, separation, judgement and rejection just being there, perceive the energies, knowing and trusting, with total awareness and great allowance.
I’m sure there are so much great book there… I would show a tiny book with great power, simple words with full of powerful message not just for the new-borns….
The Baby Unicorn Manifesto by Dr. Dain Heer and Katarina Wallentin … and that’s what we are, ALL OF US, the unicorns …
The journey has already started and I’m here for you when the time has arrived for you.
It could be Before Pregnancy – to get pregnant -, During Pregnancy, at Birth and After the Birth till your baby is 3years old. THE RANGE OF SUPPORT IS WIDE WHATEVER YOU NEED; ASK!
Let me share my poem with you ....Who am I / What I work? What is one word, sentence that can say this?
I am your tour guide, if you ask.
I will lead you through the dry desert,
and offer you cooling water.
I will go with you deep into the dense jungle
and light a warm fire.
I will climb the high rock with you
and hold the rope.
I will descend into the deep abyss with you
and hold the torch.I am your companion on the road, if you want.
I am your teacher on the road, if you want.
I am a student on the road, if you want.
I am a support on the road, if you want.
I am a torch on the road, if you want.
I am with you, and I will say goodbye,
if you want that too.
I am a mother, I am a partner, I am a human, I am a writer... I am EVERYTHING too.
I'm grateful to have a chance to be member of the Scottish Doula Network.
We are there each other, support each other, share the knowledge, wisdom.
And it is a honour to take part of the fantastic work of Doulas Without Borders network of volunteers, where we offer offering accessible, grassroots services to women and childbearing people experiencing multiple disadvantage and financial hardship during pregnancy, birth and early parenthood.
When you feel you would like to know more, talk, meet, have questions...please reach me.
Contact online: use form
Mobile: +44 7934 099 802
email: contact@livingingracebya.com
FB Group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/mothersupports/
Member of the Scottish Doula Network
Voulenteer
of Doulas Without Borders
When, How, ... can we support You
BEFORE Pregnancy
From how to get pregnant through to preparing your body, mind and your family...
Share sources, signposting, and clear the past, the beliefs around family, pregnancy, motherhood with different holistic approaches - mostly essential oils and energetic"healing".
Please book a free 30 mins talk it can be online or in person.
DURING Pregnancy
The support again depends on your needs. It can be only one longer, deeper talk or several build up visits.
We can cover physical and emotional stages, available sources, discover your power, hiden knowledge, write the birth plan, ....
The session could be 1, 1,5 or 2 hours
The fee is £25/hour
It is available online and inperson
DURING Giving Birth for You
The support again depends on your needs. We meet several times to know each other, talk through your feeling, emotions, ideal birth.
We write together your BirthPlan. We talk about your preferences, what kind of support would you like. There are wide range of choise of natural remedies, medications...
We keep in touch in 24/7 . I am in call 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after your due date.
I will be with you from early stage of the birth till you and your baby are happy and settled.
OUR UNIQUE TOOLS
During pregnancy, if the expectant mother is stressed and worried about her pregnancy/baby, Access Bars helps to dissipate negative thoughts and creates space for positive impulses.
As a result of the procedure, expectant mothers can more easily find the balance between motherhood and femininity.
This also relieves the fetus of the tensions that affect it through the mother, which is later reflected in a positive way on the baby's emotional state.
Based on experience, babies whose mothers receive Access Bars treatment during pregnancy are much more balanced and breastfeed better.
There are also many signs that there may be psychological reasons behind toxemia. If the tension stems from deep within, real help can be provided by processing conscious or unconscious experiences that cause anxiety.
Access Bars can also help couples who have failed to conceive and who have no biological obstacles to fertilization.
In such cases, by releasing mental blocks, grievances, and belief systems, energies can be released that allow space for the natural conception of a baby.
In this case, it is advisable to treat both members of the couple, because men can also carry mental blocks that prevent the desired pregnancy from occurring.
“Angelika supported me after I had my second baby & would come to our home to look after our baby so that I could get a couple of hours precious sleep when needed. She was always friendly, reliable, professional & so gentle & caring with our baby. I trusted her entirely & wouldn’t hesitate to recommend to anyone. Thank you so much Angelika, your support meant that I could enjoy those first few wild months of motherhood so much more & feel more like myself after some undisturbed rest." (Donna, Leila's mom)
Alexa Young, CA