Neurodivergent, Autism, ADHD, OCD and the others even doctors has not find diagnoses yet...

People can often think - as readers, as writers - that the writings are for others, for the audience. It is not excluded... but the most important reader is our SELF.

Someone may also ask why we put it out in public, why we show it.....Maybe someone else will find something in it...Maybe because “I can’t tell anyone, so I’ll tell everyone” (Frigyes Karinthy - Preface)Maybe we hope that those who haven’t heard the words will hear them now, maybe...

Maybe....

“Like tiny seeds,they fly far,and find a home in hearts.”(Angelika Kállai - I leave it on the wings of the wind) https://www.livingingracebya.com/post/createawarness

neurodivergent, adhd, ocd, autism

I did not do research or study any of the labels... I just heard the words ADHD, OCD...etc.

It came into my world with my son,

(ok...it was already here...) but not even cognitively and without acknowledgment.

I just see it now when I look back. He was just near 2 years old, and there was a dragon egg. We put the two parts together, and he was upset and crying, saying it was not right, we did wrong. After some months, I realized... the tiny, little pattern on the egg did not matched.

It was impossible to visit the swimming pool, even though he loves water, because he cannot stand wet swimming trunks. So he enjoyed the beach naked when the weather was nice.

I was not “brave” enough to choose homeschooling, even though it was screaming so loud to me since my daughter started school. So, the first year of school, he tried to “balance” his energy at home, jumping and running everywhere.

And now? He is 12. He eats only 4 kinds of “food” - no it is even not proper food- does not wear long trousers or jackets, not even in minus temperatures. He is great at perceiving energy and sometimes gets afraid. He knows everything about devices. And of course, he is impatient and judgmental with himself.

And I have a daughter too ..... did I mentioned my ex...;)) I’ve just was looking for something what is OCD, ADHD ... how does it appear for me, “in me” ... what I can tick from the list of common themes...

What could it take to go beyond the diagnosis, the labels?

What could it take to discover the beauty, the possibilities, a greater, miracoulus living with YOUR, your child’s ABILITY?

What else is possible if you allowed the possibilities it actualize a different reality?

What if this could be your first step ...?

“only” a book:Would You Teach a Fish to Climb a Tree?

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A different take on kids (and adults) with #adhd, #Autism and #OCD.

“Don’t define these children by their labels.You will cut off your receiving of what they have to gift to you.Instead ask a question,”What is the gift they have that I am not receiving?”- Gary Douglas Please get in touch with questions, requests Angelika Kallai holistic counsellor, doula Access Counsciousness Facilitator, CFMW